Question : access query export data from one table to another

I have an access database with 2 regular tables and 2 linked tables.  

linked tables:
s03_orderitems
s03_orderoptions

regular tables
nonvisitordata
visitordata

I want to write a query that does the following:

select s03_orderitems.order_id from s03_orderitems where s03_orderitems.code = slnv and s03_orderitems.printed <> 1
then set s03_orderitems.printed = 1

then

select s03_orderoptions.attr_id and s03_orderoptions.data where s03_orderitems.order_id = s03_orderoptions.order_id

then

populate table nonvisitordata

where       s03_orderoptions.data for s03_orderoptions.attr_id 1 = nonvisitordata.name
      s03_orderoptions.data for s03_orderoptions.attr_id 2 = nonvisitordata.street
      s03_orderoptions.data for s03_orderoptions.attr_id 3 = nonvisitordata.town
      s03_orderoptions.data for s03_orderoptions.attr_id 4 = nonvisitordata.state
      s03_orderoptions.data for s03_orderoptions.attr_id 5 = nonvisitordata.zipcode
      s03_orderoptions.data for s03_orderoptions.attr_id 6 = nonvisitordata.toy1
      s03_orderoptions.data for s03_orderoptions.attr_id 7 = nonvisitordata.toy2
      s03_orderoptions.data for s03_orderoptions.attr_id 8 = nonvisitordata.friend1
      s03_orderoptions.data for s03_orderoptions.attr_id 9 = nonvisitordata.friend2
      s03_orderoptions.data for s03_orderoptions.attr_id 10 = nonvisitordata.nickname

Can someone help me

Answer : access query export data from one table to another

It's a code solution only at the moment.

I think it might be worth you trying to explain your requirements in  terms that do not presume the solution.

Something along the lines of...

I have data that looks like this.........

I need to create records that look like this......