on ddl_selectedindexchanged event,
loop gridview rows and if the record id is equal to the ddl.selecteditem.value, then make taht rows.selected=true
or set detailsview.rows.selectedV
alue = ddl.selecteditem.value
http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/system.web.ui.webcontrols.detailsview.selectedvalue.aspx