Assuming the file is an Oracle .dmp (export) file, you cannot open it with Access or Excel. It is an Oracle format.
You can either ask the originator to send you a CSV file, or install Oracle and import the file into an empty instance.
I recommend downloading Oracle from Oracle's website, running the installer and choosing the defaults to create the sample database.
Then use "imp" to import the file.
The problem here is we have no information whether the .dmp file is for a single database schema or a full export (whole database). How you import it depends on that. Ask the person who sent you what version of Oracle and also how he did the export, so you know how to import it.
Example:
To import from a full export file an old schema named fred, into a new schema user named barney...
With imp:
set ORACLE_SID=ORA1
imp system/admin file=export.dmp fromuser=fred touser=barney