Ok, now I understand the problem more. I just read this forum post, and there is a Microsoft rep on there that explains this error you posted:
"There are 2 parts of an "SSL binding" - the host:ip:port information that is in applicationhost.config which is unique to each site (eg: webdav1.example.com:443:ip
) and the mappings of an ip:port combination to a server certificate in http.sys configuration which in this case is shared across all your sites using the wildcard certificate - removing the bindings in the UI will remove both those things which will of course make your other sites non-functional - you need to remove just the binding in applicationhost.config using other means like appcmd/editing in notepad etc."
The person that posted the question was then able to resolve the issue by removing the binding by opening applicationhost.config. So just edit that file and remove the binding for the default web, and you should be good.
http://forums.iis.net/t/1149714.aspx